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Rated 3.5
584 reviews
5 - 10 years
Frequency
Over 99%
Effectiveness
None
Blood clot risk
None
Effect on fertility
Rated 3.6
14 reviews
During or before sex
Frequency
80% - 96%
Effectiveness
None
Blood clot risk
None
Effect on fertility
Copper coil (IUD) ingredients
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Benefits: What this contraceptive can help with
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There are no benefits that are recognised in scientific research or guidelines for this contraceptive
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Copper coil (IUD) reviews
584 reviews
Used for 1 - 3 mo
30 years old
🇬🇧 UK
• 2 weeks ago
This post is for those considering the copper IUD. I know it is scary and you can find many horror stories online, so I thought I make the effort and share my IUD journey with you which has been very positive. Insertion: Got the IUD on the 4th February Insertion was uncomfortable and for a few seconds very painful but it did go away very quickly. I did bleed a little bit as well but I always do when they are examining my cervix. I’m very sensitive down there. Note:I have never given birth and my GP said that it can be more painful for those who never given birth vaginally. The GP who did the insertion was absolutely brilliant. She talked me through what she was doing and she prepared me for the most painful part. There was also a nurse present who was literally holding my hand through the whole procedure. It was such a positive experience. I’m grateful for both of them for making this experience so manageable. Right after insertion: I wasn’t in pain afterwards - I only had a mild sense of discomfort like you would have after a smear test. I even went for an hour walk right after the procedure, so it was really not bad at all. Please note that I’m a physically active person, so walking for an hour doesn’t tax me much. Others might have different experiences and it’s absolutely fine if you just go home and rest in bad for the rest of the day. That’s what i was told to do to be fair. Days After insertion: The cramping was moderately bad after the next 4-5 days, spotting was light After the 4-5 days cramping intensified especially after exercise and at some point the pain made it difficult to walk. Never felt cramping like that before. It made me very irritated as well. Normal painkillers didn’t work, I had to take cocodamol to get some relief but it was short term. Later it turned out that it coincided with my PMS. I was bleeding everyday after insertion, so it was hard to determine what was menstrual bleeding or bleeding because of the IUD insertion. Around day 11 cramping settled significantly. I only had occasional cramps which don’t require pain killers. I think I got my period on day 12 (16th Feb or 15th Feb) because the bleeding intensified around that time. It is the 17th February today. Moderate bleeding (more than usual but moderate) very light cramping. Fast forward March. After my period in February, I did not experience anymore unusual cramping - even after exercise. I got my period on the 9th of March. I did have some light cramping and mood changes as PMS but nothing unusual. The cramping was very moderate and did not require painkillers. Bleeding lasted 6 days with 3 days of heavier bleeding -3 pads a day- which for me is heavy bleeding. I have had sex a few times since insertion and my partner couldn’t feel the strings, so no problem there. Did not experience any dryness and my sex drive during ovulation is definitely higher than when I was on the pill. Overall very happy with my wee copper coil. 😊 Just a reminder that negative stories often get more attention than they deserve—people are more likely to vent about bad experiences than take the time to share positive ones Will keep you updated!
Very positive mood
1 more effect
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0 comments
Used for 1 - 3 mo
28 years old
🇬🇧 UK
• 3 weeks ago
I’m writing this purely because of how terrified I was going to get the coil after all the horror stories I read about on here. If you are prepared the insertion is an absolute walk in the park. I took 2 feminax and 2 paracetamol about 45 minutes before my appointment, chose the local anaesthetic (call in advance to check you can get this!) - I literally hardly felt the anaesthetic at all and then the insertion is like sudden onset of moderate period pain but again it was nothing as bad as I was expecting!! The 24 hours after I kept using the pain relief tablets and I haven’t needed to use it since. A tiny bit of bleeding since which I think will continue for a few days but that’s it. If this fear of the insertion is what’s stopping you from getting either coil please read this! I almost didn’t get it because of the anxiety I had around fainting / extreme pain etc. that I read about. Eat before, take pain relief and get the local anaesthetic and you will be so fine
Very positive mood
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Used for 1 - 3 mo
30 years old
🇬🇧 UK
• 1 month ago
I got my gynefix mini online and had it inserted at the John Hunter clinic in London. I had paraguard before which gave me terrible cramps and incredibly heavy periods: I had Jaydess for 3 years which gave low but manageable mood but I started having terrible back pains either it. Once I had it removed, back pains stopped. I didn’t use anything for a while and then tried the implant, which was awful! It gave me terrible mood swings and anger! Went back to jaydess and back pains returned and low mood. I started looking for other options and found gynefix and I am so glad I did! Insertion was painful and my periods are significantly heavier but nothing I can’t live with. No back-pains, no horrible craps and no mood effects! Thank you whoever created this! I really forget it is there and only sometimes can slightly feel it, but this is by far the best contraception I’ve tried! It was hard to find a dr to get it fitted and I had to order it myself as NHS don’t supply it, but worth it!
Very positive mood
0 helpful
0 comments
Used for 1 - 3 mo
30 years old
🇬🇧 UK
• 2 weeks ago
This post is for those considering the copper IUD. I know it is scary and you can find many horror stories online, so I thought I make the effort and share my IUD journey with you which has been very positive. Insertion: Got the IUD on the 4th February Insertion was uncomfortable and for a few seconds very painful but it did go away very quickly. I did bleed a little bit as well but I always do when they are examining my cervix. I’m very sensitive down there. Note:I have never given birth and my GP said that it can be more painful for those who never given birth vaginally. The GP who did the insertion was absolutely brilliant. She talked me through what she was doing and she prepared me for the most painful part. There was also a nurse present who was literally holding my hand through the whole procedure. It was such a positive experience. I’m grateful for both of them for making this experience so manageable. Right after insertion: I wasn’t in pain afterwards - I only had a mild sense of discomfort like you would have after a smear test. I even went for an hour walk right after the procedure, so it was really not bad at all. Please note that I’m a physically active person, so walking for an hour doesn’t tax me much. Others might have different experiences and it’s absolutely fine if you just go home and rest in bad for the rest of the day. That’s what i was told to do to be fair. Days After insertion: The cramping was moderately bad after the next 4-5 days, spotting was light After the 4-5 days cramping intensified especially after exercise and at some point the pain made it difficult to walk. Never felt cramping like that before. It made me very irritated as well. Normal painkillers didn’t work, I had to take cocodamol to get some relief but it was short term. Later it turned out that it coincided with my PMS. I was bleeding everyday after insertion, so it was hard to determine what was menstrual bleeding or bleeding because of the IUD insertion. Around day 11 cramping settled significantly. I only had occasional cramps which don’t require pain killers. I think I got my period on day 12 (16th Feb or 15th Feb) because the bleeding intensified around that time. It is the 17th February today. Moderate bleeding (more than usual but moderate) very light cramping. Fast forward March. After my period in February, I did not experience anymore unusual cramping - even after exercise. I got my period on the 9th of March. I did have some light cramping and mood changes as PMS but nothing unusual. The cramping was very moderate and did not require painkillers. Bleeding lasted 6 days with 3 days of heavier bleeding -3 pads a day- which for me is heavy bleeding. I have had sex a few times since insertion and my partner couldn’t feel the strings, so no problem there. Did not experience any dryness and my sex drive during ovulation is definitely higher than when I was on the pill. Overall very happy with my wee copper coil. 😊 Just a reminder that negative stories often get more attention than they deserve—people are more likely to vent about bad experiences than take the time to share positive ones Will keep you updated!
Very positive mood
1 more effect
0 helpful
0 comments
Used for 1 - 3 mo
28 years old
🇬🇧 UK
• 3 weeks ago
I’m writing this purely because of how terrified I was going to get the coil after all the horror stories I read about on here. If you are prepared the insertion is an absolute walk in the park. I took 2 feminax and 2 paracetamol about 45 minutes before my appointment, chose the local anaesthetic (call in advance to check you can get this!) - I literally hardly felt the anaesthetic at all and then the insertion is like sudden onset of moderate period pain but again it was nothing as bad as I was expecting!! The 24 hours after I kept using the pain relief tablets and I haven’t needed to use it since. A tiny bit of bleeding since which I think will continue for a few days but that’s it. If this fear of the insertion is what’s stopping you from getting either coil please read this! I almost didn’t get it because of the anxiety I had around fainting / extreme pain etc. that I read about. Eat before, take pain relief and get the local anaesthetic and you will be so fine
Very positive mood
0 helpful
0 comments
Used for 1 - 3 mo
30 years old
🇬🇧 UK
• 1 month ago
I got my gynefix mini online and had it inserted at the John Hunter clinic in London. I had paraguard before which gave me terrible cramps and incredibly heavy periods: I had Jaydess for 3 years which gave low but manageable mood but I started having terrible back pains either it. Once I had it removed, back pains stopped. I didn’t use anything for a while and then tried the implant, which was awful! It gave me terrible mood swings and anger! Went back to jaydess and back pains returned and low mood. I started looking for other options and found gynefix and I am so glad I did! Insertion was painful and my periods are significantly heavier but nothing I can’t live with. No back-pains, no horrible craps and no mood effects! Thank you whoever created this! I really forget it is there and only sometimes can slightly feel it, but this is by far the best contraception I’ve tried! It was hard to find a dr to get it fitted and I had to order it myself as NHS don’t supply it, but worth it!
Very positive mood
0 helpful
0 comments
Withdrawal or pull out method reviews
14 reviews
Used for 3 - 5 yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 26th Mar 24
I came off the combined pill around 4 years ago after trying many different pills and never quite feeling myself/having terrible clots in my periods on breaks. I'd been told by drs it was the only way to have safe sex from pregnancy and felt i had no choice. The good old fashioned pull out method has been my best friend ever since! Once i spoke to a very wise nurse who told me that i could try the natural cycle way or rely on pull out cleverly. Now i want to say that this isn't for everyone. I have been in a healthy long term relationship with someone i trust and with whom we communicate during all aspects of sex. Because of this we have been able to have all kinds of sex (including penetrative) without any pregnancy scares. My partner is a cis man and i a cis women, and the secret is FULL COMMUNICATION. If he is close to cuming he stops (NEVER ACTUALLY RELY ON PULLING OUT AS YOU CUM NO NO). It's about calming things down on his end when he thinks he'll climax. that means pulling out and moving to oral etc for a while before going again. Normlly this means i get a whole lotta love while he calms down so BONUS!! POSITIVES - I often cum first as it means i always get to cum as he can keep going and we are not relying on one way to have sex. I feel myself! We are more experimental and go on for longer. Its about trust so things feel more intimate, it has led to better communication and much better forplay. This means i cum more often. Knowing my own cycle and getting to know how my body and hormones work. Having sex slowly and sensually, with my pleasure and his both being taken into account due to the fact you can't just have full penetrative sex without thinking. NEGATIVES- he obvs can't cum in me. he doesnt personally feel sad about that. When finally he can't be in me anymore he has to cum using other ways to finish. It means it can be a bit stop and start (personally i think this is fun). You do have to be more careful. THIS IS DEFINITELY FOR PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEIR SEXUAL PARTNER WELL. ITS ABOUT TRUST. You can't just bang it out like in the movies haha! I do pregnancy tetss every 3 months just in case pre cum has snuck in (it's very unlikely this gets you pregnant especially if your partner is aware of this. but worth thinking about) Overall, Chefs Kiss - but i do sometimes miss he cumming inside me ! BUT WON'T GO BACK
Very positive mood
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Used for 8+ yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 22nd Feb 24
Only used it on occasion and normally alongside another form of contraception. I don't really recommend it as it feel risky
Top side effects not reported
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Used for 18 mo - 3 yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 15th Feb 24
The withdrawal method is really not for everyone. But me and my partner prefer to not use male condoms and I use my Flo app to track my ovulation and period which helps me gauge when is the best time to use this method. As I’m not trying to fall pregnant again right now, and I don’t really want to use any hormonal contraceptives, this method has definitely worked for me but can only work if your willing to take control with family planning.
Top side effects not reported
0 helpful
0 comments
Used for 3 - 5 yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 26th Mar 24
I came off the combined pill around 4 years ago after trying many different pills and never quite feeling myself/having terrible clots in my periods on breaks. I'd been told by drs it was the only way to have safe sex from pregnancy and felt i had no choice. The good old fashioned pull out method has been my best friend ever since! Once i spoke to a very wise nurse who told me that i could try the natural cycle way or rely on pull out cleverly. Now i want to say that this isn't for everyone. I have been in a healthy long term relationship with someone i trust and with whom we communicate during all aspects of sex. Because of this we have been able to have all kinds of sex (including penetrative) without any pregnancy scares. My partner is a cis man and i a cis women, and the secret is FULL COMMUNICATION. If he is close to cuming he stops (NEVER ACTUALLY RELY ON PULLING OUT AS YOU CUM NO NO). It's about calming things down on his end when he thinks he'll climax. that means pulling out and moving to oral etc for a while before going again. Normlly this means i get a whole lotta love while he calms down so BONUS!! POSITIVES - I often cum first as it means i always get to cum as he can keep going and we are not relying on one way to have sex. I feel myself! We are more experimental and go on for longer. Its about trust so things feel more intimate, it has led to better communication and much better forplay. This means i cum more often. Knowing my own cycle and getting to know how my body and hormones work. Having sex slowly and sensually, with my pleasure and his both being taken into account due to the fact you can't just have full penetrative sex without thinking. NEGATIVES- he obvs can't cum in me. he doesnt personally feel sad about that. When finally he can't be in me anymore he has to cum using other ways to finish. It means it can be a bit stop and start (personally i think this is fun). You do have to be more careful. THIS IS DEFINITELY FOR PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEIR SEXUAL PARTNER WELL. ITS ABOUT TRUST. You can't just bang it out like in the movies haha! I do pregnancy tetss every 3 months just in case pre cum has snuck in (it's very unlikely this gets you pregnant especially if your partner is aware of this. but worth thinking about) Overall, Chefs Kiss - but i do sometimes miss he cumming inside me ! BUT WON'T GO BACK
Very positive mood
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Used for 8+ yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 22nd Feb 24
Only used it on occasion and normally alongside another form of contraception. I don't really recommend it as it feel risky
Top side effects not reported
0 helpful
0 comments
Used for 18 mo - 3 yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 15th Feb 24
The withdrawal method is really not for everyone. But me and my partner prefer to not use male condoms and I use my Flo app to track my ovulation and period which helps me gauge when is the best time to use this method. As I’m not trying to fall pregnant again right now, and I don’t really want to use any hormonal contraceptives, this method has definitely worked for me but can only work if your willing to take control with family planning.
Top side effects not reported
0 helpful
0 comments
Used for 12 - 18 mo
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 9th Feb 24
Somewhat negative mood
2 more effects
0 helpful
1 comments
Used for 5 - 8 yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 8th Feb 24
With the male condom, it was fine, however I didn’t like using flavoured ones as they gave me more thrush than usual
Improved skin
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Used for 1 - 3 mo
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 8th Feb 24
I'm not pregnant so definitely doing something right! It is not my fave method, I would only recommend this if you: 1. trust the person you are with and you know they will pull out 2. both you and your partner have been tested for sti's before sleeping together 3. you are able to check if you are ovulating or not 4. use another form of contraception with this, such as the morning after pill, I personally don't use this as my sole method of contraception.
Top side effects not reported
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0 comments
Used for 8+ yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 7th Dec 23
I've been using this method for about 15 years. I don't have children and have never been pregnant. The only downside is it's supposed low reliability, but it's been working for me. I tried the combined pill at the beginning of my relationship, for a year or two, but it didn't agree with me. By that time our relationship felt pretty stable, so we switched to withdrawal method. Although I never wanted children, for many years I just accepted the possibility of a surprise baby. I thought if it happened then it was meant to be. There are no side effects, and my partner is happy with this method also. Now that I'm in my mid 40s I'm less accepting of the possibility of an accidental pregnancy, and I do sometimes get a bit anxious over this. So I also started tracking my cycle on an app, so I can avoid the fertile days. But my cycle has gotten shorter, so I don't even know if I have any fertile days anymore. For years we've used the method without tracking the cycle, and it still worked though. Recently for a short time I tried the POP desogestrel, that I got for heavy periods. I was kind of looking forward to using this reliable contraception, but unfortunately I got really bad mood swings, so I'm back to this method again.
Somewhat positive mood
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Used for 12 - 18 mo
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 29th Jul 23
Came off the pill after using for 11 years and wanted to be hormonal contraceptive free so we decide on pull out method as if got pregnant would be happy accident. Been using for 12 months and completely successful reliable contraception for us.
Top side effects not reported
1 helpful
0 comments
Used for 6 - 12 mo
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 27th Jul 23
Quite a risky method that I wouldn't recommend. I use this method on-and-off (sometimes using condoms instead) as I don't want to use hormonal contraception and I had a terrible experience with the IUD. I have never gotten pregnant from this method. But having very irregular periods means this method causes considerable stress at the end of each month when my period is inevitably late. Even after getting a negative pregnancy test I'll still convince myself I'm pregnant. Not very fun!
Somewhat negative mood
0 helpful
1 comments
Used for 3 - 5 yr
Lowdown user
🇬🇧 UK
• 21st Jun 23
Used after 6 years of implant to allow my cycles to ‘go back to normal’. Continued to use for 3+ years, however this is not a form of contraception on its own only alongside other forms. After an unplanned pregnancy due to not using this alongside another method I will be seeking a more formal contraception method to ensure this does not happen again.
Top side effects not reported
1 helpful
0 comments

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